yea i just looked up her age. i didnt realize how old she is lol but i mean im assuming shes making enough money to support herself so she doesn't have to look for a dude with money. You right, it does takes more than confidence and swag but i guess for a girl like that its important.

She's financially well off??? You sure? Im not hating she may be, but if shes saying the reasons shes in her 30's and cant keep a man is because of how shes approached and no one is confident enough for her than she needs to look in the mirror.

Melyssa Ford is a beautiful woman, she obviously thinks highly of herself as well, speaking as a woman I cant imagine how hard it may be for a man to approach a woman like this.

She say's she has recieved collages, letters written to her and she laughs it off as if shes too good to acknowledge a man who would go out his way to appraoch her like that, or create something to show how much he cares.Thats INSANE!Obviously she's become so jaded by her own beauty she doesnt even realize what a blessing it is.
She probably see's it as a tool or an accerlade to get whatever she wants, seeing its the only reason she has a career in the entertainment business in the first place. Lets not get it twisted, this is the same woman who oiled up, danced next to rappers who rapped about being "big pimps" and bent her naked ass over in magazines for money. They need to be confident? Yes...but she needs to be greatful men are open minded enough these days to still even respect her!

I think it would be waaaay easier to walk up on a video chick in the club, flash a shiney watch and run some game, pooring your heart out takes energy and it bothers me that women like her can't appreciate that kind of effort.

Her sense of entitlement may be the reason she cant keep a man and probably never will. Confidence, swagg, that shit is all manufactured. The heart isnt...For me, a man doesnt have to have that fake ass confidence and created swagg as long as he has a HEART.(I hope that didnt sound disrepectful?)

ps: I bet if a really really confident man who drove a honda and made $30,000 a year appraoched her with swagg and confidence in his status she still wouldnt be interested. What you think? lol Chicks like this are looking for waaaaay more than confidence! lol "They are entitled to a man who has EVERYTHING!!!" That's why some of them end up lonely old cows reminising on there beauty and what they USED to be..Think about it.

"Entitlement"...The black womans worse enemy!!!

-MzBrittanyLUV

she basically saying be yourself and if your "swag" is right, then you'll have a chance at the drawers lol na but she probably has high standards and she's financially well off so she can be picky i guess.....